It's October and everywhere I look I am seeing pink pink pink! This
makes me happy, because it wasn't that long ago that this subject was
taboo. One of my friends, Sandi Berri, is a breast cancer survivor and
has been doing something wonderful with her Facebook posts this month.
Each day, she is posting what she learned about breast cancer while
going through it! I think it is SO important for us to remember the
women and men behind Pinktober. Each time I see a pink awareness
ribbon, I don't see just a cause- I see a person. This is an incredibly
empowering act as a volunteer- it keeps me focused on WHY I am working
so hard to raise funds. When things get frustrating or hard, it is the
SURVIVORS and the fighters that keep me pushing forward.
Today I
want to share Sandi's posts for the first 7 days of October (with her
permission, of course!). Sandi is a teacher, and I really appreciate
the way she is teaching us all this month.
October 1! Since this is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I shall share
things I have learned about this disease. 1.) You can have Breast Cancer
but not have a lump or a mass. Mine started in the mammary ducts.
Although it was in an area 6cm X 5.5cm X 12cm (yes! Centimeters not
millimeters) there was no lump or mass. That is why mammograms are
encouraged. I noticed skin rash, bruising and itching and called for a
mammogram!
Oct.2! Lesson #2. My cancer was fueled by estrogen. Had I gotten a
hysterectomy earlier in my life, it would have decreased my risk by 25%!
Not one doctor nor gynocologist suggested it, instead, one decided I
needed something else that actually increased my risk by 18%! We trust
doctors but ask questions, gain knowledge, and now we can google the
heck out of stuff! Use the internet before you make a decision! Avoid
ALL hormone replacement and birth control if you have a risk of cancer!
Oct 3. What I learned #3. Medicine has changed greatly in the 30 years
since my mother's diagnosis. Now they can tell how fast it grows, the
cell make up, estrogen and progesterone reception, and other traits to
best treat that specific cancer. Mine was growing 10 times the rate of
the average growth rate of a cancer and considered very aggressive but
because it is still hormone receptive, the doctor says we can control it
better. My chances will never be zero but the longer we go without it
coming back the lower my chances of having cancer again will be. I have
meet many women who had cancer 15 or 20 years ago and are still going
strong! They all inspire me!
Oct 4. #4! You are not alone! I was comforted by the many family and friends
that supported me for which I am eternally grateful. I was surprised to
learn some of my friends had already experienced Beast Cancer before I
knew them, and was befriended by many that learned of my diagnosis and
wanted to help with advice and encouragement! As one friend put it, we
are sisters now! I honor those that went before us into this battle who
have volunteered for research, which my mother was a
part of. I praise the ones still fighting bravely, and I pray for the
researchers to find a real cure! I am glad I have a God of love,
strength, encouragement, faith, and bravery for He sent me His angels on
Earth to help me through! Trecia Harper, Cynthia Taliaferro Malone, Dona Henson Sherrill, Shirley Hilliard, Oleta E. Bryant, Stacy Walker Cooper, Stacyia Stiletto Dillard, Christy Edelen's Mom, and many others!
Oct 5. #5! Cancer is called the silent killer because there is not usually any
pain, especially with breast cancer. There are however, other signs so
listen to your body! Every year when schools starts it takes me about
two weeks to adjust my sleep patterns. Last year after about 6 weeks, I
was still wiped out when I came home from school, I would get real
sleepy driving from school or long drives on the weekend. I couldn't get
through a Saturday or Sunday without a nap or fall asleep
at 9pm! This continues the rest of the first semester. My body was
working so hard trying to fight what was going on, I was worn out but at
the time I didn't know, I just thought I was getting old, needed
vitamins, even got a B12 shot! Then when the other symptoms showed up
(and I googled them) I scheduled a mammogram. Please, listen to your
body, sometimes it is yelling for help! Ladies, if you can't get your
mammogram this month, go ahead and schedule it for your regular
screening, that way it is done and set! But if your body says, "Hey!"
Like mine did between mammograms, better listen and get it checked out
ASAP! Better safe than sorry! Mine was a close one!
Lesson #6! Sugar! It causes many problems! Diabetes, obesity, and it
feeds cancer cells! With today's availability of foods we are
overloading our systems with sugars and carbs that act as sugars. When I
do a PET scan I go 24 hours without sugar and carbs then they inject a
sugary substance to see if there is any activity of excited cells
because the cancer up takes the sugar faster than normal cells. Beware
of sugar and carbs if you are at risk. Happy Tuesday!
**Side note from Cassi**
You can read more about sugar and cancer here from MD Anderson: Does cancer love sugar?
and here: from The Mayo Clinic.
Oct. 7 #7! You find out the strength of your family and friends relationship!
Blake has been my rock! He has been so patient and understanding with
me. My children have stepped up and done the little things of daily life
for me and Haley has been so helpful! My entire family has been my
support, brother, sister, and nieces and nephews! My friends have
provided encouragement with phone calls, prayers, cards, and Facebook! I
have the most compassionate fellow workers and the best school
where I teach! They helped me so much and it was my first year there!
They didn't even really know me! Lol! I can't tell you how much all that
means to me! It is hard for me to rely on someone else but for the
last year I have learned to lean on others a bit. Not sayin it will be a
habit, but for right now, I appreciate the help. This lesson was
learning to allow others to help you! I am fiercely independent and just
letting someone help me out of bed was hard! But I am learning that it
is okay to ask for help!
Thank you for your insight, Sandi! If you like posts like this, let me know in the comments below!
With HOPE,
Cassi
